Sunday, July 8, 2012

A Thank You Note to My Father

Week of June 18

THE ARTICLE: 
"India: ‘Disgusted’ by Her Dating, Man Beheads His Daughter, 20"
By THE ASSOCIATED PRESS
June 20, 2012 

THE GIST: 
Oghad Singh, a father in a northwestern Indian village, beheaded his 20-year-old daughter because he was 'disgusted' with her relationships with men.  The victim, Manju Kanwar, left her husband from an arranged marriage two years ago, and then became involved with several men, eloping with one two weeks before her death. Singh argued that his daughter's behavior brought dishonor to the family. He decapitated Manju with a sword and surrendered to the police holding her head in one hand and the sword in the other.  He has been charged with murder.

THE POEM: 
A Thank You Note to My Father

thank you for not cutting off my head
when I dated that actor
who spent his afternoons in bed

thank you for not setting me on fire
when I dated that musician
who didn't know how to change a tire

thank you for not hitting me
when I dated that bartender
who wore glasses ironically

thank you for not exercising your rage
when I dated that yoga teacher
who was twice my age

thank you for sparing me a beating
when I dated that dropout
who played online poker for a living

thank you for not playing abuse roulette
when I dated that guy with the motorcycle
who didn't offer me his helmet

thank you for not covering me in your spit
when I dated that druggie
who stole my wallet

thank you for not choking me with string
when I dated that mooch
who made me pay for everything

thank you for not twisting off my limbs
when you learned I'd committed
some pre-marital sins

and thank you for letting me sift through
throngs of suitors until I find one
that measures up to you

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